Parent Gym is a series of six sessions proven to increase parents’ skills and confidence and so improve the behaviour and wellbeing of their children.
Parent Gym provides parenting programmes free of charge to schools and children's centres in the state sector. Our programme has been designed by leading psychologists and is suitable for parents of children aged 2-11. The sessions are highly interactive and participative. (See the 'Six week programme' section below for more detail on what is covered during the six weekly sessions of our programme).
Parent Gym programmes are facilitated by our Parent Gym Coaches. Some of these are volunteers from the community, others are in-house staff members based in schools or children's centres. All our coaches go through rigorous screening, training and assessment to prepare them to deliver Parent Gym; they then receive ongoing support, mentoring and training.
Parenting makes such a big difference to children's lives; our work hopes to support families so that their children are given the best start in life. We know that every parent faces challenges and times when they struggle, and also that every parent has the capacity to grow and reflect on the way they parent. All parents should have the support they need with their parenting; we believe that parenting programmes should be seen as an integral part of parenting, just as ante-natal classes already are.
The foundations for almost all aspects of human development – physical, intellectual and emotional – are laid in early childhood. Political leaders, social scientists and professional experts alike have all agreed that parenting has a powerful impact on this development. The effects of parenting range from academic performance and school attendance to health, social confidence, future career success and the ability to maintain stable relationships (Marmot Review, 2010; Scott et al 2006).
For example, differences in parental involvement with primary school aged children have a much more significant impact on children’s development than variations in the quality of schools. This scale of impact has been found to be evident across all social classes and ethnic groups (Desforges 2003).
Studies have also shown that the long term impact of high levels of primary school age parental involvement include: higher earnings; less crime and delinquency; greater literacy; higher achievement test scores; higher employment rates; lower teenage pregnancy; and better jobs (CANparent 2014). The importance of parenting is so influential that the Social Mobility Commission recognises parenting as its first ‘key to unlocking social progress’ and ‘the most important factor in determining life chances.’
How to communicate more effectively
Get you and your child talking in a positive way every day.
Communication such as active listening by parents relieves social frustration later, since children find out what they are feeling and how to express it (Gordon, 2000)
How to balance warmth and discipline
Show your children you care in lots of ways.
Many who are violent or with a history of criminality are so because they have not had meaningful attachment relationships in early life that would allow them to identify with others (Gerhardt, 2004)
How to be consistent with setting boundaries
Bring order to your house with rules and routines that really work.
Poor parental discipline and monitoring puts children at risk for later delinquency by setting in motion a chain of impact that progresses the development of antisocial behaviour (Patterson et al., 1989).
How to raise healthy children
Keep yourself and your family healthy and happy.
Parental intervention such as rewards can be an effective way for parents to improve their children’s diet. (Cooke et al, 2011)
How to encourage learning
Help your little one learn, grow and achieve their dreams.
Parenting influences children to view mistakes as challenges, rather than stressors, to become resilient learners (Brooks and Goldstein, 2001)
How to build a solid family support network
Keep your family rock solid and help your child to make friends.
Family stressors have been identified as creating pathways to disrupted family management practices putting children at risk for developing antisocial behaviour, including unemployment, family violence, marital conflict and divorce (Patterson, 1998).
Parent Gym is a programme made up of six two-hour sessions, with ‘missions’ to complete between sessions. Each programme has up to twenty parents and one Parent Gym coach. Hover over each week for an outline of what we cover and why.
Parent Gym is a philanthropic programme that is funded entirely by Mind Gym. Its growth and continued success is made possible by the generous contribution of many others.
"We have helped over 1m people at work. We wanted to see if we could help parents with the hardest job in the world - at no cost to government, schools or parents themselves." - Mind Gym CEO and Parent Gym founder Octavius Black
In order to do this, the Mind Gym’s team of psychologists, led by Dr Rebecca McGuire-Snieckus, combined a comprehensive review of national and international academic studies and popular literature with parent interviews and the Mind Gym’s expertise in instructional design - to come up with the Parent Gym programme.
The first Parent Gym programmes were run in Belfast and London in the spring of 2010, with a tremendous response from participating parents. Find some of our parents' stories here.
In response to demand from schools and parents, the Mind Gym’s team of psychologists have since developed the content into a six-week programme which fits easily into a half-term.
Parent Gym was independently evaluated by UEL in 2011, and Canterbury Christ Church University in 2012 – which found that two months or more after they had completed the programme 100% of parents interviewed reported that their relationships with their children had improved. Parent Gym has subsequently been independently evaluated by the University of Hertfordshire (2014) and the University of Warwick (2014 & 2016). See some of the research findings here.
In 2014 Parent Gym was awarded the national CANParent Quality Mark in recognition of the standard of the programme. This means that Parent Gym is a trusted provider of evidence-based, universal parenting classes. In the same year the Mind Gym was "highly commended" at the prestigious Business in the Community Awards for its contribution to building stronger communities through Parent Gym.
By the end of 2017 Parent Gym was running more than 200 programmes in London, Leeds, Bradford, Manchester, Brighton and Hove, supporting approximately 2000 families. Hear some of the participating schools’ stories here.